Marriage

 For the second time in three days, I see a FB meme about why don't marriages last as long today as they did in our grandparent's generation.


My considered reaction is that marriage means something different today than it did then. And I'm fine with that. Every marriage is different and every ending to a marriage is different.

“All happy families are alike; each unhappy family is unhappy in its own way.”
~Leo Tolstoy , Anna Karenina

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